Hi all,
just a reminder that 'Movember' is still on going and if you haven't yet donated you can still do so by visiting the title link or here.
Many thanks in advance for your generosity.
So now with this post I want to pick up on a subject that I touched on a few weeks ago, and that was of course the Be Do Have I have had a some great feed back from that so thank you all very much.
So now I want to help you out there who want to know where you can start. If we have the ultimate control over our outcome, simply by choosing it, then where do we start?
Well first you have to identify what it is that you want to change. Is it that you want to loose some weight? Do you want to quit smoking? Do you want to create more income? Do you want to have a better relationship?
We have control over all of these things, now this does come with a caveat of course, and that is we have control over these things, once we have taken responsibility for where we are in life right now.
Lets take being over weight for an example, are you over weight because you were picked on as a child? Your parents are large? You're 'big boned'?
Or are you over weight because you eat to much? You have an unbalanced diet? You don't exercise regularly?
Now hopefully you can already see the difference in what is written there. If not, the first set of questions asked if you were over weight due to an outside influence, and the second set asked if it was due to something you were doing, or not doing.
So by blaming the outside influence you are striping yourself of the the power you have to change it. If you are stepping up and taking responsibility you have the absolute power to change it. This is how.
Once we have identified what it is that we wish to change, then we need to know why we want to change it. If for example we wanted to give up smoking, then the obvious one might be for our health.
So now this is where the topic links back with the post I made a few weeks ago of the BE DO HAVE. No I am not talking with a forked tongue.
Bare with me here.
Now when most people want to give something up, or to change something, they look at all the things they are not, i.e. if someone was to quit smoking, more often than not they will say I am going to give up or quit and really who likes to give up at anything? Or worse be a quitter? This is where your BE DO HAVE comes into play.
Now instead of quitting or giving up why not become a non smoker? If you can see the difference in that statement then you are already half way to achieving your goal, any goal. If not then keep looking, it will come to you.
Alright, now you have become a non smoker you are essentially BEing, what then are your actions? What do you DO on a daily basis that is consistent with who you are BEing? Once you have mastered these then you will ultimately HAVE.
So if like energy attracts like energy and BEing is living in the end result, regardless of the appearances around you, and DOing is actions that let you HAVE the results.
What does that person in which you are BEing, do on a daily basis?
This post today was one sent to help you tap into your inner self, to give you the questions you need to be able to make the change that you want to make.
I want to leave you with this today;
"All that we are is the result of what we have thought.
The mind is everything.
What we think, we become"
Buddha
Thursday, November 20, 2008
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